Saturday, May 26, 2012

Post Baby Weight Loss

Let's just talk about this for a second.  You know those people who have a baby and walk out of the hospital not looking like it, or those people who have a baby and a weeks later you can't tell.  Yeah, I'm not one of those people, I hate those people (not really, just ticks me off!)

I never lost all my weight from having my first baby, mostly because I was lazy.  After I had my second I was just "fat" sorry if you don't like that word, but its the truth and it was the one thing that got me moving!  I had a series of events that happened that made me disgusted with myself, they are much too humiliating for me to post on here, but they were totally enough to get me moving!  So, as you know form this blog I started running!  I also stopped eating sugar.  Like hard core, no sugar if it was listed in the first 3 ingredients on a label!  I lost 20lbs, I still had quite a bit to go though!  I sat at that weight for quite some time despite training for a half marathon that had me burning enough calories to lose 2lbs a week and still nothing!  SUPER frustrating.  I however wasn't really watching what I was eating.  So, I enlisted the help of my new friend! We had just started to get to be friends and she was perfect for me because I was still getting to know her and didn't want to have to tell her I ate crap!  She is super honest on her blog about her weight loss, so she was perfect for me!  I lost 22 more lbs!  This brought me back to almost where I was after having my first baby!  (almost) Unfortunately, I had gained weight before having him so I still needed at least 20 more lbs before I wanted to have another baby. 

God had other plans. You know that phrase, we plan, God laughs. Yeah that was us!  We all know I got pregnant with the twins far faster than we were hoping!  Surprise!  No more losing that last 20lbs. I was determined not to go crazy and gain 80lbs for these kids and did what I thought was great and only gained 50 (which put me lighter than I was when I had baby #2) I lost 30 right away after they were born, which was amazing, but that was the holiday season and I did not feel like dieting again, so I gained 10lbs back.  Dumb! 

So here were are again. I started running again at 6 weeks 2 days, but didn't start strictly with the food until 3mos. Its been SUPER  slow. I've only lost 7lbs but I know I'll get there!  Its gonna be a lot of work!!! To get there I have had to workout 6 days a week and really watch what I eat!  Which stinks! 

So, that's enough of the babble!  I hear babies crying!  And I need to go run with my friend! 

All you baby poppers who lose that weight right away with no effort.  Count yourselves blessed and eat a donut for us ;)


Friday, May 25, 2012

6 Months

In all honestly, they are almost 7 months, but these pictures were taken on their 6 mo birthday!  Half a year already!  It is going WAY fast!!  For me the days are LONG but the time is flying!  Love these sweet faces!!

Love his chunk!!



Happy most of the time!!

Its rough cutting teeth!

Something about this picture I just love!
Caleb: 19# 1oz 27 2/3" Long (75%)
He is a super sweet boy! He's one of those, when he's good he's very very good and when he's bad he's horrid, kind of boys!  But most of the time he is just super precious and I just want to eat him up! He's pretty close to sitting up and is getting up on all 4's and rocking back and forth!  We'll have a crawler soon!  He is army crawling in the right direction. This picture is when he just moved backwards!
He cut his bottom two teeth and the beginning of the month so he has just been a drool monster ( as you can see in the pic above!) He is eating food finally! Neither he nor his sister were interested for a while and that was super frustrating!  But he loves it now!  He had his first ear infection this last month and it took two rounds of antibiotics to get rid of it!  Poor kid!  He's had a rough month! 

Emmerson 14# 2oz 26 1/4" (10%)

She's our tiny little bug!  Such a happy happy girl!  She also got 2 teeth this month and did it without any fanfare, all the sudden they were there!  She's arming crawling ALL OVER THE PLACE! Getting into everything and loves to try to get peoples shoes!  Seriously, she can be surrounded by toys and she will bypass them all and go for the shoe's nearest!  She's a riot!   She has no interest in food!  She literally spits every time I put it in her mouth!  Sigh. Right now she is sick for the first time, fever, stuffy nose and very irritable!  Poor little girl.  They both had shots yesterday. That is the last time I let them get shots while already not feeling good.  She cried for a good 1.5 hours yesterday afternoon!  Fun!


Monday, May 21, 2012

Lucky, Sassy, Sissy

Whatever you call her she is one special little chick!! 

We had such a great day!  Every time I asked her what kind of party she wanted she just said a pink party! So that was a pretty easy theme to pull off! 








We even asked everyone who came to wear pink!


A picnic with family and a few friends was the perfect way to celebrate this 3 year old!





L with her BFF who was still a little weary of all the party hoopla. She warmed up :)
Brother Sister love!

Present opening!


Love her face in this one!  She was SOOO excited

Pinata!!

Cupcakes!

This is probably my favorite pic of the day!!
And water guns!

 What could be a better way to celebrate!! We love our sassy girl! 

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

5 months

Well, hello there blog, I had forgotten I had you :)

Crazy life around here. I should do a day in the life someday, then you will have a small glimpse into my crazy world.

We're growing around here!  The babies are 5 1/2 months!  Holy Cow!  The days may take forever around here but the weeks and months are flying!  I still have many many days of being very overwhelmed but its getting better!  God has really been getting me through!  Just when I think I can't take it any more He quiets one baby or sends someone along to help!  I really could not be doing this without Him!

At the babies 4 mo appointment (which was the at the end of April, so they were closer to 5mo then 4) Caleb was 16.8 lbs, which is actually only the 75%, surprising He was 26 1/2in long (90%).  Emmerson was 12lbs 4oz, which is in the 10% (I think) Crazy child, and 25 1/4in long!  She's gaining though, and think she's gained at least a lb in the last 2 weeks. Shes been eating like crazy!  Not spitting up as much either!

Both babies were great for their apt!  I was crazy and took them both myself.  Went well though!  I took in 1 car seat and put one in it while the other was getting checked out. Then after the doc left and we were getting ready for the shots, I dressed both babies leaving out their legs and brought in the other car seat.  Caleb went first and did ok til the last shot, and then we broke his heart!  Poor kid!  Emme did amazing, I was expecting her to cry a little more because she had been sensitive the few days before the apt, but she cried very little and then was fine. Caleb was still crying at this point and proceeded to cry til we got in the car to drive home, he then passed out.

I keep saying that the babies are my most challenging kids.  Not just because their twins but because it seems like everything that can happen does happen.  For instance, neither of my older two ever spit up, I laughed then because I rarely used a burp cloth and joked they were a waste of money.  Now, I go through at least 4 a day.  The older two never had trouble with shots, Caleb was miserable for 3 days. The older two were pretty good babies with eating, both twins have/had tummy troubles and were extremely fussy the first few weeks til we changed their bottles, water for their bottles, formula and method of making it.  The older two popped their teeth out without any notice.  Caleb is drenching himself with drool and  had lots of days screaming in pain and we haven't even seen teeth yet.  Sigh, oh well, at least I've had the older two to give me a small perspective that the baby stage only lasts so long!

They are also LOTS of fun!  Caleb is a super happy kid most of the time.  Both babies are very social and don't like to go to sleep though, they might miss something!  Emmerson smiles and anyone who looks at her!  She is a gem!  Really good natured for the most part!  She can roll both ways and recently has started inching her way forward!  Caleb inches his was backwards and is still only rolling belly to back.  He's working on the other way though!

Ok, enough talk, if you've even read this far...here's the good stuff :)






 I think I need a Wyatt and Leah only post next!  Better get on that :)

Friday, February 24, 2012

Oh yeah, I have a blog!

Oops. You'd think I had 4 kids or something! :)

Life is crazy that's all I can say!

I didn't think twins would be easy, and after they got here, they kind of were.

Then they woke up :)

Now life is filled with crying/feeding/sleeping/playing and that's just me :)

They are 3 months old already!  (almost 4 but whose counting)

Yes, Caleb is really that much larger than Emmerson! At their 2 month weigh in he was almost 13lbs and Em was just over 10.

Emme wasn't really into pictures on this day, Caleb is always ready to smile though!

Oh, wait I guess I tired him out!

There we go! I mean, who can resist this face!


Go team!
Precious girl!
Probably my most favorite picture of these two sweet babies right now!

 Amongst other things, these two have been doing this since about 2 months one week


Caleb:
Eat 6oz every three hours
Sleeps at least 8 hours most nights! Has gone up to 12!
Loves to play and be talked too! 
Doesn't like to be put to sleep
Makes sweet cooing noises and some ga's
Laughed for the first time this week!  So cute!
Rolls from his tummy to his back
Grabs things when placed in his hands


Emmerson:
East 4.5oz every three hours
Sleeps 10 hours most nights and has also done 12 hours!
Loves is when she is talked to!  HUGE smiles!
Has rolled from tummy to back a few times
Loves to lay on the play mat and talk to the baby in the mirror
Tries to grab things with her hands!
Doesn't like to take naps!
Isn't quite as expressive as her brother but she has such a sweet sweet demeanor!

Overall we're doing well!  We've had some tough days this last week, but we're figuring things out!

Big brother and sister are doing well!  They are doing so well with their new siblings!  Wyatt is so good with both of them!  He's a great helper! He's doing great in school and we just had a great parent teacher conference for him!

Leah is a trip! She is a great helper at home (most of the time) STILL isn't potty trained!  I should have done it before the babies were born. She just isn't interested at all. I think its a power thing right now, she knows she can control it so she's gonna!  She's a lot of fun and loves her "best friend Zoe"

Love my family!

Friday, January 13, 2012

New Year's Resolution

To my recollection I have never made a new year's resolution.

Figured I'd break it so why even make it.

Good thinking right.

This year is the exception.

Just in case you forgot I recently had twins!  I gained about 50lbs.  Not to shabby in my book, considering I had two decent sized babies, two placentas (one of which I'm told was HUGE), blood flow for 2 babies, beginning milk supply, and two amniotic sacs. All told I weighed less with 2 babies than I did when I had Leah!  Yikes!

So here's my new year's resolution.  To fit back in to my wedding dress!  Yep!  That's it!  Big undertaking but according to SparkPeople, I should be able to do it by around June!  I'll take by December, but its nice to know if I work hard it could be possible by June!

Why my wedding dress? Many reasons. That weight was the last time I really remember feeling good about the way I look. I felt amazingly beautiful in it. I thought it was beautiful. My husband tells me it was the sexiest thing he's ever seen me wear. :) tmi? And I would love to do a "trash the dress" of sorts. Nothing crazy but just something simple and fun!  I've got a great photographer to hire!  She's great, if anyone is interested!

Ok, so lets help keep me accountable people!  I will be posting about bringing sexy back

My first smaller goal is to be back to pre-baby weight by the end of March. That's about 25lbs.  I've already lost 1 last week so its a start. If I lose it all I'll be exactly where I started  year ago!

Ok, here we go!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

2 Months

I know I'm a few days late, but hey, I have twin infants!

Luckily, right now they are both napping along with their big sister, and lest I jinx it, I have a few minutes of quiet. 

There is laundry on the floor to be folded, a floor to be vacuumed, dishes to be done, a shower to be taken, beds to make, but I am just taking a quiet moment for myself.  These times are few and far between

So on to the babies.


Emmerson obviously not to happy about this...done with the photo shoot!


2 months already!!  So crazy!  I see some things getting easier.  I have finally figured out how to feed them at the same time by myself.  I've found a method that works well for me.  Baby on each side sitting in a boppy, blanket rolled up in front of them and bottle resting on the blanket.  I hold their bottles for the most part, this just makes it easy when I need to burp one of them.  No wrangling to try to prop the bottle up, its just let go and burp.  Works well for me.  Now, if I could just make myself put them on the same schedule.  I do for the most part, but I hate waking them up when their sleeping.  Like right now, I really should be waking up Caleb to eat because his sister ate a while ago, but when their napping so well, I hate to do it! 

Here's and individual twin breakdown.

Caleb:


Holds his head up pretty well
Loves to look at the pictures on the wall
Smiles when you talk to him or smile at him
There's no fussy with him, its either happy or screaming. 0-angry right away
Isn't sleeping through the night and not really giving me a super long stretch.  6 hours has been his max
Likes the bouncy seat as his toy of choice
Loves his brother and sister! 
Eating 5oz about every 3 hours
Loves tummy time

Emmerson:


Getting better at holding her head up. Still pretty wobbly but getting stronger all the time
Also loves the pictures
Loves to watch tv
Great smiler!  Beat her brother to the punch for first smile!
Sleeps through the night!  Last night was from 8-5!  Yep!  Love her :)
Is content most of the time and only really gets crying when she's hungry
Loves the swing, the bouncy seat and the play mat.
Loves her brother and sister!
Eats 4oz every three hours
Hates tummy time! 

Any advice on scheduling would be helpful!  I know Eat, wake, sleep. Just really how strict should I be?!? Or do I stick with what I'm doing?

Friday, January 6, 2012

A Whole New Meaning

It's amazing as you grow up how your perspective on life changes. 

Some things have less meaning.

Some have much much more.

You realize what's important in life!

For me another perspective changed yesterday. 

Growing up my youth pastor and his wife meant a lot to me!  Before I was even in youth group they were my neighbors and I was over there every day. They say I was there more than I was at home!  I have even been honored to be called their eldest child at times! 

So, when on a trip home from a camp one winter, her water broke far to soon and their sweet baby was called home to heaven, I was upset and even cried. But now, after having children of my own, and knowing people who have had great losses in their life, I realized really the significance of what happened! 

I realized that they probably think of their sweet Annie all the time! Long to hold her, kiss her sweet face, watch her sleep.  You never get over the loss of a child, or a miscarriage, or an inability to get pregnant, or many other hurts.  Time may heal the sting and allow the ability to move on, but these things are never forgotten! Nor should they be. They make us who we are!

Yesterday would have been Annie's 21st birthday!  I can't wait to meet her one day in heaven and tell her what amazing parents she had!

Love you D & B!!!  You are so so special and I will hug you tighter next time I see you!

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Failing-A Mom Blog

It all started with good intentions.

My sons hair was looking like this...


The one doing the feeding, not the one being fed. :)

Seriously, an untamed, thick, long mess. 

Did I mention, thick and long.

Did I mention that he won't let me "do" it every day. Gel to tame the bedhead. No, that does not happen in this house.  He says it doesn't look like "him"

Did I also mention he hates to get his hair cut.

As in, once upon a time my mom pulled into the driveway and heard horrible screaming. So much screaming she ran in the house, sure that someone had broken a body part or worse, just to find him getting his hair cut.  Yes, its that bad.  No amount of bribing or cheering or encouraging will help.  In the five years of his life he has not cried for 2 haircuts.  When I say cried, I mean thrashing about screaming his head off.  Its a wonder his hair isn't to his knees.

So, we were all geared up for a "quick" hair cut.  Both babies sleeping. We had just finished dinner. Dessert was promised for good behavior.  

Towel over the face for stray hairs, cape on to be brave like superman.

The first couple of passes go without incident.  Then we get to the back where is it thicker and longer, and the first tug of hair.  You see, when you cut long hair with clippers, it builds up and starts to pull.  See where I am going.  

Much screaming to ensue.

We're talking scare his brother and sisters to death.  In the midst of him screaming, I could hear both babies and Leah crying.  Poor Daddy.  Side note, both babies had to be held the rest of the night because they were so shaken, at least that's what it seemed like.

30 minutes later we finally had a finished haircut. It ended with him sobbing into a towel. "Bad mommy, bad mommy, bad mommy"  Yep, we both ended the haircut in tears.

The only good thing, I didn't have to hold him down. :)

So, the lesson.  When your son needs a haircut, take him to super cuts or call his aunt :)